GISTDOTCOM: SO YOU WOULD NOT TALK TO ME AGAIN BECAUSE YOU ARE NOW MARRIED ABI?

By Emete Smart - 10:39



It's always much fun and excitement seeing your friends get married. You're very happy for them and wish them the best. But for someone like me, I do not always think of the fact that things can change when my friends get married. This is because I do not expect things to change, especially communication wise. Okay. I know things would definitely change, don't get me wrong but then, I do not always expect it to take much of a downturn. Well, now I know better.

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I got to know better when one of my very good friends got married in 2017 and communication stopped immediately. She would firstly take 100 years to reply my messages and before I knew it, she stopped replying abruptly! What was I sending her, you may ask,

'Babes, what's up? Congratulations on your wedding again o. How's your husband doing? I'm sure you guys are having fun. God would keep blessing your marriage in Jesus name. Loke loke always in Jesus name. Bla bla bla'

Maybe I always put too many prayer points, please tell me o. Sometimes, as the naughty person that I am, I can add

'Sidechic will not see your husband in Jesus name. God will blind their eyes totally in Jesus name'

I think that is a very good prayer point too, innit? Knowing I could be such a naughty person, I don't expect my friend to get pissed when I'm praying against sidechicism for her husband. And then, I could decide to add some advice too.

'Babes, now that you're married, focus on your husband o. Don't listen to third party o. They will only ruin things for you guys. Be a good wife and a prayerful one at that. Your husband must be your top priority and focus. Bla bla bla'

Boya, she took my words literally and decided to focus ONLY on her husband and sideline me. I'm really hurt o but I haven't told her. My happiness is that she's enjoying her marriage. That's all that matters and it gives me great joy. As for my other friends that got married, we are still buddies. No problem. I appreciate friends like that. But for this my specific friend, I don't understand. I can't even ask because she might not reply.

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And I also heard this is the trend of many ladies. After marriage, its bye bye to your single friends. I even heard one celebrity saying that she has started ditching her single friends for married friends. Bia, what do you take us for? You think we want to steal ya husband or I'm not understanding. Or you think because we aren't married, we can't advise you? Or because we are single, we are bad influence? But when you wanted to marry, you called us to be on your bridal train. I already have one request down to be on a bridal train. She can go and ditch me once the wedding is over but remembered me when the wedding was about holding.Come on!

I think its quite bad. A friend you can't trust after marriage, you shouldn't even trust before marriage. Let's stop using ourselves biko. So you would not talk to me again because you are now married abi? Nawa.

Abeg, you guys should tell me how far if I'm wrong or not and if you've had similar experience. Would love to know your thoughts!

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